Yesterday I received the news that a good friend of mine died; she and I knew one another since 7th grade, when my life became fuller because of her.  Suzanne Orton, 40, died last Tuesday, February 12, 2008,  peacefully at her home, according to the obituary.  When "at home" is mentioned in obituaries, most the time it means by the person's own hand, however, I refuse to believe she did anything to cause her death.  I feel it in my heart and soul. 

In our early 20's, Suzy was plagued with trauma from her childhood, such trauma that she developed multiple personality disorder.  Within five years, she took control of the MPD and no longer needed medication.  She had a strong faith in God and she forgave her abuser, which gave her the power to overcome it all.  I kept in touch with Suzy, usually via Christmas cards and the occasional phone call and/or email.  I am proud to call her friend and she helped me through one of the toughest times in my life, for which I will be forever grateful. 

I carry all the memories and laughter in my heart; she had such a way about her, she could always make me laugh.   

Suzy was a friend like no other,
She was kind, cheerful, and true to another.

Suzy had a true inner strength,
A strength she shared at length.

She was full of life and laughter,
Her antics had me laughing for hours after.

Suzy’s heart was filled with empathy and compassion,
It was no secret that those she loved were her passion.

She listened with her heart and soul,
And in her company, I was never alone.

She was there when I needed a friend,
And soon, she had me laughing, again and again.

Not matter what she went through in her younger years,
She fought hard to overcome her pain and fears.

Suzy had an incredible spirit, which glowed from within,
That spirit still shines today, for it will never end.

Suzy will be remembered for her Christ-like ways,
A true inspiration to me, then, now, and always.

I will carry her memory within my heart,
Now that she is safe, loved, and at peace in His loving arms. 

Rest in peace, my friend; I love you with all my heart,
Karen